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Feels like I'm standing here naked.....

July 9th, 2020 at 07:40 pm

Hi! I'm Raquel. I'm feeling a little vulnerable. I stumbled across this site, gathered all my information, tried to settle my nausea, and hit update. I finally got my head out of the sand a few weeks ago. Unfortunately we got a rude awakening when we received court documents regarding a debt. What a sinking feeling. I thought to myself, I better do something about this before I get 10 more. So, I put all of our debt on here. As of last week, we have payments set up on all of these except 2. The one with the court hearing and the personal loan that we have not been asked to pay on.

My work requires that I contribute to retirement. (403b) We are required to contribute at least 2% and they put in 5%. I do the minimum 2%. And we have $604 in savings as of recently. We wanted to build up an emergency fund.

Can't wait to read everyone's stories and learn some new things.

17 Responses to “Feels like I'm standing here naked.....”

  1. creditcardfree Says:
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    Welcome! I've been here over 10 years on SA, but I still remember clicking the button to publish the first time. It was scary! How much is the debt that you are dealing the court with?

    Are you current on your home mortgage, utilities and car payment? An emergency fund is definitely a good idea if you don't have one. It may have to be just a thousand or a few thousand to start since you have quite a bit of debt. Any actions you take to pay off the debt will be well worth it, it's rare to regret paying off debt!

  2. Wink Says:
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    Welcome Raquel!

  3. CB in the City Says:
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    Welcome, Raquel! I've been on the site for 16 years. I was in a pretty bad way when I began, but I paid off all my debt; then took out a mortgage, which is my only debt now. I never had a very big income, so I'm here to say, it can be done even under challenging circumstances! Keep reading -- the people here have very good ideas!

  4. LivingAlmostLarge Says:
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    welcome and it's the first step

  5. RaquelF Says:
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    Thanks everybody!

    creditcardfree - The debt with the court case is the $4,084.99. We are hoping to settle and set up a payment plan.

  6. amastewa93 Says:
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    Welcome to the blog! You feel vulnerable now but you will find this to be a wise and caring community to be in. I've gotten some great advice from these folks.

  7. crazyliblady Says:
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    Welcome to SA! It is a long road, but most of us have had similar issues. If you post your budget, we could chime in with ideas on how to come up with ideas on where to trim expenses to come up with more money to pay off debt. Also, if there is any way you could consolidate any debts or renegotiate for lower interest, that will also help you.

  8. disneysteve Says:
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    Welcome to the site. If you haven't already, I'd also encourage you to check out the discussion forums. Lots of helpful people here and there (a lot of the same people) who are happy to help you analyze your budget and spending, help you make a plan for your debts, find ways to boost income, etc.

    I can't help but wonder how you owe $4,000 for tires. What's that about?

    Now that you've shared your debts, the info we really need to make any helpful suggestions is your income and spending figures. Otherwise, the debt figure has no context to tell how manageable it is for you.

    The other useful piece of info would be the interest rates on each debt as that really determines the order in which you should attack them.

  9. mumof2 Says:
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    Welcome...remember you didn't get into debt overnight and you won't get out of debt overnight but stick to your plan and you will get there..so many helpful and supportive people on this site..also very knowledgable...good luck

  10. Petunia 100 Says:
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    Hi Raquel, welcome! Smile

  11. Lucky Robin Says:
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    Welcome. I started blogging here in 2006. It was nerve wracking to make my first post, but I was overwhelmed with support from the start. It made it possible for me to tackle what felt like an insurmountable debt. We became debt free last month after paying out $250,000 give or take a few dollars on our debts. Hang out here and blog consistently and we will help you keep up your motivation.

    Do you have any ideas where you will start? Some people do the highest interest rate first, but a lot of us do the snowball method, which is to start with the smallest debt first, paying only minimums on everything else and putting all extra towards that debt, then when you pay off that one you add all extra to the second biggest debt. That is the method I would recommend if you need the psychological impetus to keep at it. It really boosts your enthusiasm to see a couple of the smaller debts drop away. Studies have shown that people are more likely to stick with it than the highest interest rate first method. The only time I wouldn't put the smallest first is if you had a 0% interest rate. That one could wait.

  12. bjl584 Says:
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    Welcome! We're all here to help. I'd also head over to the forums for answers to any questions that you may have

  13. rob62521 Says:
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    Welcome! Lots of smart people with great ideas on conquering debt blog here and work on the forum!

  14. terri77 Says:
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    Welcome, Raquel! You've come to the right place.

  15. Frugal_Cheap_Pants Says:
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    Welcome. Kudos to you for sharing. I've been here since January 2006 so I can say without a doubt you're in the right place. Stepping up and owning your debt is the first step. Take it day by day and don't get too hard on yourself if you backslide. Just pick yourself up and start again. I think keeping a blog keeps us accountable and knowing someone else is listening, makes you want to try a little bit harder. I'm debt free and live a comfortably frugal life. Feel free to ask any and all questions. Everyone here is always willing to help and not judge. Have a great week!!

  16. LifeBalance Says:
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    Welcome to the site! The step you've just taken is the hardest one. Don't hang on to the shame either. They're just numbers now. You can treat the debt reduction as a math problem to solve except that you win a huge sense of freedom when you get it done.

  17. ceejay74 Says:
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    Welcome! I came to the site over a decade ago in much the same place--even worse really. Today I'm in much much better shape and the community support and accountability here were a huge factor for me.

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